Well I guess this confirms it. Mod authors can be as obnoxious and haughty as they want, but anyone who tells them off for doing so gets punished.
I cannot imagine how any of you function in the real world if you think I'm being too aggressive.
I'm detecting a pattern here. When you get salty, your perspective becomes decoupled from reality.
You admitted to deliberately trying to wind up a mod author and as a result of your action they banned you from their mod.
But you didn't disclose that in your initial post.
Perhaps people don't think you were being too aggressive as much as being disingenuous.