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:( But I like penises

 

 

Also all I hear lately is how someone's girlfriend/wife is keeping the guy 'captive' in their relationship?! Wtf guys, do you choose women by looks only?

 

And also congratulations Ironman5000 for heaving a long lasting relationship with not many problems. I feel I am in exactly the same kind of relationship as you are. Arguments are done within minutes and they are so rare they barely even exist. I hope you and your girlfriend continue being epic :thumbsup: I love hearing about really great relationships, it makes me happy and restores my almost non-existing faith in the thing you call humanity :happy:

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I win.

And now I will go sleep. Maybe. Probably not but maybe.

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I see by the big hand on the clock that it is near the time that I would safely venture off to another way of adventure sleep, mixed with dreaming views which some times even seem to be sensible enough to fool me into thinking I am alive in dream sleep too. So, I am off to another adventure.

 

Goodnight, sweet dream's, and remember to debug or change the hides on your Skyrim home beds before crawling under the covers or something could be crawling on you while you sleep.

 

Goodnight and don't forget to give your companion their monthly pill for keeping fleas our of their fir, i.e., if you live in a warm climate. Otherwise, to all of you in winter land like me; stay warm and sleep tight.

 

I have Lydia tucked while I am ranting. Goodnight from Breezy home. http://forums.nexusmods.com/public/style_emoticons/dark/tongue.gif

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I know the type. I had a friend like him in middle school. He's a parasite, he can't really help it, that's just the way he is. You could try to talk to him about how your feelings are just important as his and he needs to adjust his approach to people, otherwise he'll really be alone.

 

 

Then again you might have one of those psychosis-perfect-storm-bat-s*** crazies that will just crank it up a notch and turn to stalking. My former boss's daughter is like that, her ex-boyfriend has a restraining order that she regularly violates and she tried to kill her father after he wouldn't let her kill herself. Fun times. But most people making suicide threats usually don't 100% mean they want to kill themselves it's just a "grown up" way of throwing a little temper tantrum for them. The major problem though with these high-strung clingy types is that they tend to overreact to calling their bluff - which could end in death... So take him seriously but don't be overly attentive to his every little drama, that's what he wants and you can't reward the behavior. If you could deal with his death then just let nature take it's course, but if you would find it too difficult to deal with, I'd say involve somebody who could deal with him in a legal/psychological manner to prevent his self-destruction.

 

 

I do not envy your next few months. I got lucky with my friend in middle school, her family moved to Alaska just when she was ramping up to suicide threats, so I was bereft of the burden of knowing what became of her crazy ass. (She's probably where my problem with intimacy and commitment come from. :sad: ) But at least I was given 4483 miles of buffer to cool1 her off and lucky for me she didn't have my phone number.

 

1Alaska is cold, this is a joke.

 

I happen to agree here. You can't be blackmailed into spending your time sorting them out. You have a life too. You need to encourage him into finding a new outlet for his time and efforts. This may take a little time and a fair bit of cajoling but once they accept the fact that there is a big wide world out there for them to explore, hopefully this will take the pressure off somewhat.

 

If it doesn't work then you will have to cut all ties and hope for the best as you and your bf have a life and don't need the constant pressure of someone trying to interject themselves into it.

 

A relationship never works if there are three of you in it (and I don't include children there, they are an added blessing not an interruption :D). Be fair but firm. Be caring but harsh. An iron fist in a velvet glove comes to mind here :)

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