The last poster wins

[K00L]

;D

[Thor.]

the crew the game that almost beat metal gear in realism, or has it. Dude its almost like they had some sort of ray tracing in that trailer.

 

Edited June 14, 2013 by Thor.

[M48A5]

:mellow:

[naomis8329]

 

Yes..... and what if the world ended tomorrow, or a bus ran you over or a plane fell out of the sky?????

 

Honey, there is no definitive way to bring up children and you know what, once you have one of your own, things change. YOU change. Whether its a boy or a girl you will love them, nurture them and want to protect them with your life.

 

Its natural to think "What if...". Its natural to think that you'll do badly. Honestly you will be fine and the thing is, you know what your problems are and you something else, it wont matter as that special power "being a dad" kicks in the moment you hold them. You know where they are, you are bonded and once that happens whoa be tide anyone who tries to hurt that little miracle.

 

The majority of parents feel that way, worry before during and after. The majority of parents think they'll do it wrong and you know what I'd be more worried if you weren't worried.

 

Believe me you'll be great at it :yes: :yes: :yes:

I don't know, I'm just not sure if I'm even cut out to be a father. My wife seems pretty sure I'll do well but personally, I wouldn't even trust myself with a dead sheep.

 

The thing that scares me the most is the fact that my childhood was terrible and so were my parents, what if I turn out to be as bad as them? I severed all contacts with them and the rest of my family, I haven't heard from them in over 2 years, that's if we ignore a phonecall when they told me they have disowned me due to marying an Iranian girl. When my father had a heart attack last year I was sitting on the balcony thinking I'll finally get rid of the bastard. If my child were to have a relationship like that with me, I don't think I could take it.

 

And yeah, my friends who got kids tell me the same thing you do, that the "dad instinct" comes when you get a child but still, it scares the life out of me. I mean yeah, I love kids, but the thought of having a child of my own frightens me. I'm especially scared of holding a baby, they look so tiny and fragile while I can rip doors off a car with my bare hands, I keep thinking I'll crush it if I try to move.

 

But there's one thing that makes me feel good about that - my wife believes I'll do good, and she knows me better than I do. I think I'll trust her judgement, I know better than to trust my own. Though she initially worried that I wouldn't accept having a daughter, around here giving birth to a girl sometimes gets you an express ticket out of the house. But I'm a simple guy, I don't mind if it's a boy or a girl, all I wish for is that it gets born healthy.

 

That is one deep thing to think about. In a relantionship both opinions matter. Your wife knows your problems better than most people and you know hers. You need to work together in this. If you don't feel ready, tell her that. If you're afraid, tell her that too. She needs to know. There's no turning back, once you have the baby and there's no one in the hole wide world that can help you guys raise your child. Practical advices are always welcomed, but you'll face daily problems no one will tell your about. You'll be the ones having to sort them out. As time goes by, you'll learn, everyone does. My advice(I'm not a dad yet) is to take things one at a time, figure them out and so on and like I said, your wife will be your best friend in this. Anyway, good luck with what ever the future gives ya.

I'm ready for anything, at least I believe I am, though my opinion is questionable. It's just that raising a child of my own seems more frightening than all the dumb s*** I did in my life combined. I already told her that, she believes in me more than I do, and she'll help me so that makes me feel safer about everything. It's still scary though.

 

Also, I know there will be problems, and I know no one can take my hand and walk me through them. I also know I can get through those problems, I dealth with a poblem of having to build my entire life from scratch after I got thrown out of the house, so I believe I can take anything life throws at me.

 

 

Honey, you worry that you'll be like your dad. The fact that you know how your dad was will stop you from being like him. You'll want to prove to yourself that you will do better, be better and love your child the way you should have been loved.

 

I look at my guys now and wonder how in the world they were ever as small as they were. My youngest three were just over a foot in length when born due to them being premature. I remember well thinking that I would hurt them if I held them, touched them or tried to do anything "normal" with them. Believe me when I say it take a great deal to hurt a child. And even then I sometimes think it has to be intentional rather than accidental (although that does happen as I know).

 

You'll make mistakes, gosh we all did and still do, but you'll learn and your wife will be right there beside you and TOGETHER you will succeed. You are a lovely young man for all your bluster. I believe in you. Your wife believes in you. YOU need to believe in you.

 

You have an extended family here and altho we may not be able to help you physically, we can be there with advice, praise and support when you both need it.

 

I take it her family are on board with you and your wife in having a child??? Even so, we're all here for you. Enjoy it. It ends so quickly you'll wonder where it went.

[Iv000]

Morning guys

 

I couldn't sleep much! Apparently alcohol and sleep dont mix well.

 

Hope all of you are fine :D today's the last day of school! Then I'll have a full summer of preparing and getting ready for a new life ^^

[naomis8329]

 

I think I rember something a Druid metioned to me .. "Sad tree, sad Neighbour"... Although I must admit the Drud comes from a region in my country where tree hugging is quite common. Idk if he is right.

 

Of course he's right, if he's hugging a tree! *eyes own avatar* :biggrin:

 

 

I'm a tree hugger, especially after a drink or two... My kids find it hysterically funny that I talk to trees and bushes quite regularly. But what can I say, I'm totally nuts so its to be expected :biggrin:

 

Morning Ivan honey xxx

[Iv000]

Mooorning Naomi :happy:

 

Hope you're doing fine

[naomis8329]

:)

Not bad... Life treating you well ???

[K00L]

the crew the game that almost beat metal gear in realism, or has it. Dude its almost like they had some sort of ray tracing in that trailer.

Is there any gameplay trailer for it? I see the one you posted is a CG one. I hadn't heard of this game, but I don't really pay much attention to racing games, and haven't really been paying much attention to any news about games in general recently.

 

Edit: Nevermind I found one. So this is some kind of multiplayer racing game?

It looks pretty, but I don't think I enjoy playing games like that enough that I would consider getting it. I do like customizing cars in that kind of game though.

 

And now I shall go to sleep. Good night/day to everyone! Hope the two of you on right now are doing well. :)

Edited June 14, 2013 by K00L

[Iv000]

Quite well.

 

I've been worrying about my grades lately, cause I'm afraid that the Uni in the UK wont want be because of them.

 

Then suddenly i saw this picture on 9gag

 

 

And it really made me feel better, and I hope that the guys in Aberystwyth have the same way of thinking as this pic. I mean I'm not THAT bad, it's just that I'm not acing things. It's mostly B-ing, could always be A-ing but oh well. It'll be A-ing next year. Point is I know stuff, and my school doesnt realize that because that's how the "system" works.

 

 

Um yeah, besides that I guess things are fine! Boyfriend is fine, I'm fine, my half-brother and I got together more and went out and had talks. Stuff is fiiiine :happy:

 

Night pat :smile: thanks

Edited June 14, 2013 by Iv000