Women

[Aegrus]

I WILL NEVER BREAK.

Yeah, well, keep thinking like that. I repeated that same thing in my mind over and over with every woman I dated and see how that turned out.

 

 

I didn't mean relating to women. I don't have an aversion to relationships. I was just referring to my mental state in general.

Edited January 9, 2013 by Aegrus

[Werne]

Ah well Werne, bottom line is she loves you ... it's so obvious :thumbsup:

That she does, she never gave up on me.

 

I admire her persistence and stubbornness, no matter what problems we've been through, she always stood by my side.

 

God, I love her. http://forums.nexusmods.com/public/style_emoticons/dark/wub.gif

 

I was just referring to my mental state in general.

So was I.

 

Your mental state can be as solid as stone but once you fall in love, it'll crumble like a sand castle http://forums.nexusmods.com/public/style_emoticons/dark/yes.gif

[ZeroKing]

Married for five months.... and damn! Weird dimension I entered, that's for sure :tongue: :tongue:

 

Had to buy the typical expensive chocolates and flowers..... and went on my knee to tell her I'm sorry about whatever it is I did. She told me it was her fault she snapped at me after we talked about getting a house. Apparently, it's still my fault for not stopping her from yelling,,,,, :wallbash: :wallbash:

 

Women.... wonderful yet confusing little creatures to understand :laugh: :laugh:

[Jitansgate]

This is why I will never have a meaningful relationship with a woman (or man, heh). I couldn't handle it. I'm by nature a very utilitarian, "who gives a #@%#$," type of person with strong mental resilience. I have emerged from years of depression a very neurotic, very misanthropic, but very sharp and grounded person. I WILL NEVER BREAK. I know who I am, and I couldn't care less what other people think I am. People who look for validation in others are ridiculously unattractive to me, no matter how physically beautiful they may or may not be. I don't even care if what I am is technically "good" or not. I'm fine with it.

 

In other words, I don't get worked up about what other people think. Bravery? Pah, for idiots. Chivalry? The chivalrous will lose to the functional. Honor? It is only as meaningful as society decides it is. I have loose morals regarding gray things (like sex, lies, and revenge, but not murder), and I strongly dislike people asking me lots of petty questions or clinging to me all the time. Traditional gender roles can stfu. I think feminists with short hair are hotter than any model. If I were to have a girlfriend, they would need to be interested in philosophical debate more than make-up and shopping. I value reliability more than flowery words, honesty more than pillow-talk. I care about intellect, not appearances, and from what I've seen of the world so far, that would devastate most women.

 

Unless someone like Morrigan (Dragon Age; Origins)(cold, logical, doesn't deal in human-constructed mores) actually exists, I will be single until the day I die. :sleep:

 

And I am perfectly fine with that.

 

I've only been in 1 Relationship with a Girl and it was in Middle School and it was only 1 week then I found out that I had to Move and it Sucked because I didn't have a say in the Matter. I'm now 23 Years old been Rejected by 20 Girls and so I've decided to Give Up on Women. I Don't Hate Women, maybe they have their Reasons.

 

But Seriously 20 Strikes in a Row is Terrible Luck. Sometimes I wish us Humans had the Fallout or Elder Scrolls Stats and Skills maybe Life would be so much Easier.

 

http://media.pcgamer.com/files/2010/11/awesome-tag-skills.jpg

Edited January 11, 2013 by Jitansgate

[HeyYou]

It's all a game. Women don't WANT men to 'figure them out'..... that wouldn't be any fun. :D

 

Just when I thought I knew all the answers, she changed all the questions.

[Alithinos]

Oh what you've reminded me of...

I have very low tolerance in receiving whine for minuscule trivial things. I got away from relationships just because I couldn't stand girls whine to me for nothing. :sick:

And this "how do I look alike" phrase... ITS A TRAPPP!!!!!!!!

You know what girls don't understand ? The fact that however they are dressed we will like them anyway. That changing what they wear won't change our feelings towards them.

I don't know how many are like that,but all of the girlfriends I have interacted with,had hard time understanding that no matter how they are I liked them for who they are. That I accepted them for what they were,not for turning them to something else of my liking. And it often happened that they wanted to change me as they didn't came to me accepting who I am,but came with the mindset that they will change me so I fit their liking,something that is annoying me.

I don't want anyone to come and change me,as I won't try to change anyone. For me this is a basic, because it shows that you respect the other person's personality,its likes and tastes. I find people trying to change me to be offensive.

 

Of course that mindset of mine has acted as a negative factor in relationships and for the most time I am a loner.

I might be stupid for putting pride over sex and relationships,but for me respecting the other one is a basic ingredient of the concept of love,as I see it.

[Alithinos]

This is why I will never have a meaningful relationship with a woman (or man, heh). I couldn't handle it. I'm by nature a very utilitarian, "who gives a #@%#$," type of person with strong mental resilience. I have emerged from years of depression a very neurotic, very misanthropic, but very sharp and grounded person. I WILL NEVER BREAK. I know who I am, and I couldn't care less what other people think I am. People who look for validation in others are ridiculously unattractive to me, no matter how physically beautiful they may or may not be. I don't even care if what I am is technically "good" or not. I'm fine with it.

 

In other words, I don't get worked up about what other people think. Bravery? Pah, for idiots. Chivalry? The chivalrous will lose to the functional. Honor? It is only as meaningful as society decides it is. I have loose morals regarding gray things (like sex, lies, and revenge, but not murder), and I strongly dislike people asking me lots of petty questions or clinging to me all the time. Traditional gender roles can stfu. I think feminists with short hair are hotter than any model. If I were to have a girlfriend, they would need to be interested in philosophical debate more than make-up and shopping. I value reliability more than flowery words, honesty more than pillow-talk. I care about intellect, not appearances, and from what I've seen of the world so far, that would devastate most women.

 

Unless someone like Morrigan (Dragon Age; Origins)(cold, logical, doesn't deal in human-constructed mores) actually exists, I will be single until the day I die. :sleep:

 

And I am perfectly fine with that.

 

I've only been in 1 Relationship with a Girl and it was in Middle School and it was only 1 week then I found out that I had to Move and it Sucked because I didn't have a say in the Matter. I'm now 23 Years old been Rejected by 20 Girls and so I've decided to Give Up on Women. I Don't Hate Women, maybe they have their Reasons.

 

But Seriously 20 Strikes in a Row is Terrible Luck. Sometimes I wish us Humans had the Fallout or Elder Scrolls Stats and Skills maybe Life would be so much Easier.

 

http://media.pcgamer.com/files/2010/11/awesome-tag-skills.jpg

 

Hmm... If you stop making the first move,perhaps women will start to approach you and do the first move! :P

Have happened to me. In the past I made "strikes" as you called them,but probably to the wrong persons,and I got rejected. At a point I got bored of getting rejected so I stopped doing that.

Then women started striking to me! The thing is that its hard to predict when a woman likes you or not. And many of them are shy and won't do that first move as I said,only some of them do.

So growing up I learnt many things. Things like that some girls from my high school class liked me enough for a relationship,but I never knew,'cause they never gave me any sign. At the same time I was wasting my time to seem cool and nice for someone else who didn't deserved all that attention anyway.

 

If only people where more open to freely share their feelings.

[Dan3345]

Alithinos-

Hmm... If you stop making the first move,perhaps women will start to approach you and do the first move! :P

Have happened to me. In the past I made "strikes" as you called them,but probably to the wrong persons,and I got rejected. At a point I got bored of getting rejected so I stopped doing that.

Then women started striking to me! The thing is that its hard to predict when a woman likes you or not. And many of them are shy and won't do that first move as I said,only some of them do.

So growing up I learnt many things. Things like that some girls from my high school class liked me enough for a relationship,but I never knew,'cause they never gave me any sign. At the same time I was wasting my time to seem cool and nice for someone else who didn't deserved all that attention anyway.

 

If only people where more open to freely share their feelings.

 

THIS ^^ Seriously sometimes you have to stop trying, when I was younger I got 2 yes's and three no's for dates. Got me a little discouraged so I stopped trying, and was really suprised to hear some of my friends telling me about girls who were into me but wouldn't say anything.

 

I guess the thing is to let them come to you, I don't know haha :thumbsup:

Edited January 16, 2013 by Dan3345

[JimboUK]

Married for five months.... and damn! Weird dimension I entered, that's for sure :tongue: :tongue:

 

Had to buy the typical expensive chocolates and flowers..... and went on my knee to tell her I'm sorry about whatever it is I did. She told me it was her fault she snapped at me after we talked about getting a house. Apparently, it's still my fault for not stopping her from yelling,,,,, :wallbash: :wallbash:

 

Women.... wonderful yet confusing little creatures to understand :laugh: :laugh:

 

You need to learn that everything is your fault and always will be, after 18 years I'm still getting the blame for everything. ;D

[Lisnpuppy]

*tosses stuff at Dark0ne's head* (lol)

 

I don't think you can pigeon hole women or people in general as some of you are. I act much more "like a man" than how most folks think a woman could act (or should sometimes.) I admit I usually would rather take a arse wippin' than shop. But I also set up conversations that end up...well in a way that my husband can't win. Men do it also just not as much. I am not sure why people act the way they do sometimes.

 

You just decide, when you love someone what is important and what isn't. You can't change folks. It is dumb to try and will cause you only heartache. There are things that drive me absolutely batcrap mad that my husband does, and vice versa. But he puts up with me and knows (usually) when I need to talk or when to open the door, toss a candy bar on my desk and run (which he really has done before.) How can I not love that?

 

And as Marylin Monroe said...and this is one of my personal favorite quotes:

 

"I’m selfish, impatient, and insecure. I make mistakes. I am out of control and at times, hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best."

 

I think that goes for anyone, woman or man. Don't sweat the small stuff. If someone makes you smile everyday then you can forgive a multitude of sins.