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Why would anyone want to attract flies? (maybe we should start a new thread for that?) :D

My biggest complaint with his campaign promises was where he said the public would have a chance to review/comment on bills in congress before they came up for a vote. It was a nice idea, and he even started doing it, but then, it just kinda fell by the wayside, and it stopped happening. He also promised jobs. Which I don't see. Granted, he was elected just as our economy was going to hell in a hand basket..... but, the 'massive growth' he implied never did materialize. His handling of Syria was woefully shortsighted, and continues to be. His foreign policy (apologist in chief?) ain't the best either..... Obamacare has turned into a nightmare, and broken almost every promise that was made about it. VA healthcare still sucks. Many, many issues with his presidency. But, that isn't anything new either. One thing I DO know, I most certainly do NOT want Hilary on the follow through...... But, this is so far off-topic as to be in another friggin' galaxy. :D

Oh, that's cute. I was deliberately not taking sides in a race I don't have a horse in. My point was that both sides in this debate are up on moral high-horses trying to save us from nonexistent problems. If the past couple of years have taught us anything it is that the left wing can be just as dogmatic and intolerant as the worst of the moral majority. -A Pretty much how I feel. I have no love loss for the leadership of the right, but the leadership of the left is no friend to the transgender community, either. They are like the politicians who start wars from the convenient comfort of their cocktail parties and then send others out to get tore up in the fighting. They will be unaffected by any of this, but the transgender community who was not even on the rights radar screen are now, ground zero for an irritation bomb that we did not ask for or use. I'm not a liberal or a conservative, because they both are pretty much the same. They want to fight the so-called "Good Fight" for the rest of eternity instead of coming to a meeting of the minds that would benefit all. I'm a progressive and I know one thing for sure. Society can't progress unless we all move foreword together and neither of these groups want that because they will loose what they truly desire and that is the control over the people who think they need them to get anywhere. The right isn't holding the transgender community down. The right is reacting to the lefts sinister little shell game. They want to change the narrative from their unpopular candidate and the fact they just screwed over their own constituents by sabotaging Bernie Sanders run for Hillary clinton. They needed to get that out of the minds of the college kids they disfranchised by their own tyranny and replace it with a fabricated issue that served no purpose but to alleviate their self inflicted wounds. Trump and Clinton will go down in history as the two most disliked candidates to ever via for the office. I couldn't care less for either of them, but I litteraly dispise those who used the transgender community as a red herring. It shows just how much they really care about any of us. Politicians only care about your vote. They will say whatever it takes to get you to vote for them. They will sell their souls to the devil to get enough money to make sure their message gets out. Of course, once elected, nothing of what they promised ever comes about....... at least, not in a way that you would appreciate. Obama promised 'hope and change'..... and here we are, all hoping for some more change....... as what we have now really isn't what any of us really wanted. Well, except maybe, for the rich folks.

They have to be allowed to make those changes though, and they are not, or made highly implausible, a lot of the time. I suppose if one has never been in or have close ties to someone in such a situation it can be very hard to see the disparity and desperation. The fact still remains, blame or no blame, that people do not start on an equal playing field, some people have to do a lot more to get to the same place. Hell, isn't that what American politics is all about these days. People are demanding change. If they don't get it you can guarantee the problems supposedly isolated to 'black communities' will become increasingly wide-spread as more people fall through the net. In no way shape or form am I saying this is a easy situation to solve, and it certainly can't be done by any 'individual' community on it's own. That is the whole point of 'integration' or 'civilisation' or whatever you want to call it. Of course who integrates with who is also something that begs questioning but it is what it is so maybe that is another discussion... but yes, I agree poor behaviour and bad form in all parts of government and society at large have perpetuated issues that may have been easier to mend in the past, into completely new territory that creates a viscous spiral where there are fewer and fewer winners. Sometimes, I think that is actually what the plan is...... Our government continues to do things that undermine the 'american dream', making it unattainable for 95% of the population..... We see policies that favor the rich, at the expense of everyone else, not just the poor communities...... We are headed rapidly toward self-destruction....... People can see it, they can talk about it, but the underlying policies do not change, and we continue on our downward trend, at an ever-increasing pace...... Somethings gotta give.... and I don't think its going to be a pretty picture when it does.

I think that's a matter of perspective. Personally, I don't want my granddaughter asking my why that 'lady' over there has somethin' swingin' between her legs. Nor do I want some perv/pedo using it as a cover, so he can go into the girls bathroom and get his rocks off. In all reality, in many ways, I agree with the law, use the bathroom for the physical sexual characteristics that you have. If you have the twig and berries, use the mens/boys room. Why is that so hard for people to get? If the choice is between explaining the facts of life to kids, or forcing many or most transgenders to embarrass themselves in public restrooms, imo NC's law has no chance of surviving legal challenges. It's already partially failed its first test. As for public sex and assault etc, as mentioned, dozens and probably hundreds of state and federal laws already prohibit these activities. Also as mentioned, no protection is afforded to the public by NC's law because no enforcement provisions are contained in it. Enforcement is therefore impossible (surprise surprise) and I doubt the state is planning to install birth certificate nannies in all public restrooms. So NC's law amounts to legal harrassment for transgenders and nothing else. If larger groups are ostensibly already protected, why are folks rights being violated by having some perv/pedo in the wrong restroom? I don't recall reading anywhere you have a right to not be embarrassed. If you are male, use the men's room. That is what it is for. I am seriously tired of society pandering to the least common denominator. If you are uncomfortable with the equipment you were born with, don't use a public restroom. There is zero reason to put everyone else in an uncomfortable position, because someone has delusions of being the other sex. We have become far to politically correct for our own good. I think the world will be a much better place when our society finally implodes on itself from such idiotic behavior. Has it ever occured to you that this did not come from the transgender community. It came from the Government and a desperate left wing. There was a need for a new cause that would excite the Democratic base and send them to the poles. Hillary Clinton is about as interesting as a moose booger . That's why she couldn't put Sanders away and the powers that be knew that. That's why the DNC had to go after Sanders, but they couldn't get his supporters unless they could give them a cause to rally around and since Gay Marriage was off the table, they pulled this out of their hat. The right bite like a trainedfish on their line with this NC thing and the media pounced on them right on cue. WAll Lah, we have a contrivercy and something for the left and the right to rally around. The authors of this rediculious feasile are hoping that the Republican's will stay hom because they don't like Trup and Hillary will kill him in the poles. This is not going to exist after the elections because the Government only wants to use the transgender community as it uses the illegal alien community. Why don't you think we haven't fixed our imigration? It is because if the Government fixed it they would have less issues to demonize others in the eyes of their constituents. So the dems are organizing the LBGT community to protest, etc? Hhhhmmm....... Not sure I buy into that one...... They don't just get the lgbt community. They get all those who live for the right to demonize the right in every way known to man. You've got to understand. the mating call of social activists are the sound of prejudice, even that which is fabricated. Why do you think so many instances of racism are being found everywhere.. It's being looked for everywhere by those people who think if they find it, it will validate their ideals. We are being played by the elites on this one. Well, that wouldn't be anything new under the sun. It will be interesting to see how many of these issues disappear after the election..... I would not be surprised in the least to see your suspicions validated. :D Don't have that much longer to wait either. Quite frankly, I will be happy when it's over and done with. (and then my nephew will stop spouting on about how obama is going to declare martial law, skip the elections, and declare himself dictator.... or whatever..... :D) It's strange what people think when they are told what to believe and despise the opposition enough to know in their heart of hearts that they would do such a thing. I don't just despise the opposition. I despise BOTH parties. :) Neither one has the best interests of america in mind, only their own best interests. In all reality, I would like to be able to vote "none of the above", and when that category wins, they all go home, and we start over. I will watch the news, and I tend to gather viewpoints from both sides of the aisle, and a few other places as well, and form my own opinions. Some would say that I am prejudiced, or bigoted. That is likely true, and ya know what? I just don't have a problem with that. :) Mainly because the terms have been overused so much, as to be pretty much meaningless. At worst, it simply implies that you have a differing opinion than the person assigning those labels. As for the discussion at hand, I think I am pretty much done here. I have made my points, even though there are a few that refuse to see them. We have different opinions/perspectives on things. That does not come as a surprise. I am not going to convince anyone to change their views, nor is anyone going to convince me to change mine. It was an interesting intellectual exercise, which I suppose, is really the point here....... In closing, let me just say, that I really couldn't care less about someones lifestyle. How you live your life is your business, and no one elses, so long as no one is violating others rights/space, and using it as a stage for their cause, it just doesn't matter to me. Try and shove it down my throat, and yes, I AM going to have issues with it. Ya all have fun. :)

Assigning blame solves nothing, it just perpetuates the problem. Instead of focusing on whose fault it is, the black community should be looking for solutions. A better way of doing things. Blaming 'whitey' for all their problems is both inaccurate, and unproductive. Of course, one of the things that have been lost in this country, and NOT just by the black community, is personal responsibility. No one is responsible for their own actions. It is always someone elses fault. I am fed up with the excuses for poor behavior, and blaming everyone else for problems that most of those folks have brought upon themselves. It doesn't matter what ANYONE outside the community does, it won't improve a damn thing within the community. The community itself MUST stand up, take responsibility, and then take steps to improve itself. No outside effort, especially by 'whitey', will have any good effect at all, if it is forced upon them from outside. Change comes from within, and unless/until these communities step up to the plate, nothing will change. Which is EXACTLY what I expect to happen. Nothing.

I think that's a matter of perspective. Personally, I don't want my granddaughter asking my why that 'lady' over there has somethin' swingin' between her legs. Nor do I want some perv/pedo using it as a cover, so he can go into the girls bathroom and get his rocks off. In all reality, in many ways, I agree with the law, use the bathroom for the physical sexual characteristics that you have. If you have the twig and berries, use the mens/boys room. Why is that so hard for people to get? If the choice is between explaining the facts of life to kids, or forcing many or most transgenders to embarrass themselves in public restrooms, imo NC's law has no chance of surviving legal challenges. It's already partially failed its first test. As for public sex and assault etc, as mentioned, dozens and probably hundreds of state and federal laws already prohibit these activities. Also as mentioned, no protection is afforded to the public by NC's law because no enforcement provisions are contained in it. Enforcement is therefore impossible (surprise surprise) and I doubt the state is planning to install birth certificate nannies in all public restrooms. So NC's law amounts to legal harrassment for transgenders and nothing else. If larger groups are ostensibly already protected, why are folks rights being violated by having some perv/pedo in the wrong restroom? I don't recall reading anywhere you have a right to not be embarrassed. If you are male, use the men's room. That is what it is for. I am seriously tired of society pandering to the least common denominator. If you are uncomfortable with the equipment you were born with, don't use a public restroom. There is zero reason to put everyone else in an uncomfortable position, because someone has delusions of being the other sex. We have become far to politically correct for our own good. I think the world will be a much better place when our society finally implodes on itself from such idiotic behavior. Has it ever occured to you that this did not come from the transgender community. It came from the Government and a desperate left wing. There was a need for a new cause that would excite the Democratic base and send them to the poles. Hillary Clinton is about as interesting as a moose booger . That's why she couldn't put Sanders away and the powers that be knew that. That's why the DNC had to go after Sanders, but they couldn't get his supporters unless they could give them a cause to rally around and since Gay Marriage was off the table, they pulled this out of their hat. The right bite like a trainedfish on their line with this NC thing and the media pounced on them right on cue. WAll Lah, we have a contrivercy and something for the left and the right to rally around. The authors of this rediculious feasile are hoping that the Republican's will stay hom because they don't like Trup and Hillary will kill him in the poles. This is not going to exist after the elections because the Government only wants to use the transgender community as it uses the illegal alien community. Why don't you think we haven't fixed our imigration? It is because if the Government fixed it they would have less issues to demonize others in the eyes of their constituents. So the dems are organizing the LBGT community to protest, etc? Hhhhmmm....... Not sure I buy into that one...... They don't just get the lgbt community. They get all those who live for the right to demonize the right in every way known to man. You've got to understand. the mating call of social activists are the sound of prejudice, even that which is fabricated. Why do you think so many instances of racism are being found everywhere.. It's being looked for everywhere by those people who think if they find it, it will validate their ideals. We are being played by the elites on this one. Well, that wouldn't be anything new under the sun. It will be interesting to see how many of these issues disappear after the election..... I would not be surprised in the least to see your suspicions validated. :D Don't have that much longer to wait either. Quite frankly, I will be happy when it's over and done with. (and then my nephew will stop spouting on about how obama is going to declare martial law, skip the elections, and declare himself dictator.... or whatever.....:D)

I think that's a matter of perspective. Personally, I don't want my granddaughter asking my why that 'lady' over there has somethin' swingin' between her legs. Nor do I want some perv/pedo using it as a cover, so he can go into the girls bathroom and get his rocks off. In all reality, in many ways, I agree with the law, use the bathroom for the physical sexual characteristics that you have. If you have the twig and berries, use the mens/boys room. Why is that so hard for people to get? If the choice is between explaining the facts of life to kids, or forcing many or most transgenders to embarrass themselves in public restrooms, imo NC's law has no chance of surviving legal challenges. It's already partially failed its first test. As for public sex and assault etc, as mentioned, dozens and probably hundreds of state and federal laws already prohibit these activities. Also as mentioned, no protection is afforded to the public by NC's law because no enforcement provisions are contained in it. Enforcement is therefore impossible (surprise surprise) and I doubt the state is planning to install birth certificate nannies in all public restrooms. So NC's law amounts to legal harrassment for transgenders and nothing else. If larger groups are ostensibly already protected, why are folks rights being violated by having some perv/pedo in the wrong restroom? I don't recall reading anywhere you have a right to not be embarrassed. If you are male, use the men's room. That is what it is for. I am seriously tired of society pandering to the least common denominator. If you are uncomfortable with the equipment you were born with, don't use a public restroom. There is zero reason to put everyone else in an uncomfortable position, because someone has delusions of being the other sex. We have become far to politically correct for our own good. I think the world will be a much better place when our society finally implodes on itself from such idiotic behavior. Has it ever occured to you that this did not come from the transgender community. It came from the Government and a desperate left wing. There was a need for a new cause that would excite the Democratic base and send them to the poles. Hillary Clinton is about as interesting as a moose booger . That's why she couldn't put Sanders away and the powers that be knew that. That's why the DNC had to go after Sanders, but they couldn't get his supporters unless they could give them a cause to rally around and since Gay Marriage was off the table, they pulled this out of their hat. The right bite like a trainedfish on their line with this NC thing and the media pounced on them right on cue. WAll Lah, we have a contrivercy and something for the left and the right to rally around. The authors of this rediculious feasile are hoping that the Republican's will stay hom because they don't like Trup and Hillary will kill him in the poles. This is not going to exist after the elections because the Government only wants to use the transgender community as it uses the illegal alien community. Why don't you think we haven't fixed our imigration? It is because if the Government fixed it they would have less issues to demonize others in the eyes of their constituents. So the dems are organizing the LBGT community to protest, etc? Hhhhmmm....... Not sure I buy into that one......

I don't see the other 98% or so trying to use the wrong bathroom.

How so? I don't see the white community getting all up in arms when a white thug is killed by cops. I don't see the white community rioting in the streets, dragging black folks out of their cars, and beating them to death. I don't see the white community burning down businesses in their own neighborhoods. I don't see "White Lives Matter" protesting every time a white thug is killed. Sorry, I don't see any parallels there. It is exactly because you DON'T see these things. THAT'S the point. That makes zero sense to me. We have one community that supports the thugs, and trashes their own neighborhood when one dies. We have another community that pretty much doesn't bat an eye when one of their thugs is killed. Seems to me, that would indicate an issue with the first examples community, not the second one......

How so? I don't see the white community getting all up in arms when a white thug is killed by cops. I don't see the white community rioting in the streets, dragging black folks out of their cars, and beating them to death. I don't see the white community burning down businesses in their own neighborhoods. I don't see "White Lives Matter" protesting every time a white thug is killed. Sorry, I don't see any parallels there.

I think that's a matter of perspective. Personally, I don't want my granddaughter asking my why that 'lady' over there has somethin' swingin' between her legs. Nor do I want some perv/pedo using it as a cover, so he can go into the girls bathroom and get his rocks off. In all reality, in many ways, I agree with the law, use the bathroom for the physical sexual characteristics that you have. If you have the twig and berries, use the mens/boys room. Why is that so hard for people to get? If the choice is between explaining the facts of life to kids, or forcing many or most transgenders to embarrass themselves in public restrooms, imo NC's law has no chance of surviving legal challenges. It's already partially failed its first test. As for public sex and assault etc, as mentioned, dozens and probably hundreds of state and federal laws already prohibit these activities. Also as mentioned, no protection is afforded to the public by NC's law because no enforcement provisions are contained in it. Enforcement is therefore impossible (surprise surprise) and I doubt the state is planning to install birth certificate nannies in all public restrooms. So NC's law amounts to legal harrassment for transgenders and nothing else. If larger groups are ostensibly already protected, why are folks rights being violated by having some perv/pedo in the wrong restroom? I don't recall reading anywhere you have a right to not be embarrassed. If you are male, use the men's room. That is what it is for. I am seriously tired of society pandering to the least common denominator. If you are uncomfortable with the equipment you were born with, don't use a public restroom. There is zero reason to put everyone else in an uncomfortable position, because someone has delusions of being the other sex. We have become far to politically correct for our own good. I think the world will be a much better place when our society finally implodes on itself from such idiotic behavior.

I don't have any real desire to help anyone that isn't interested in helping themselves first. Not to mention, that a fair few of those folks that some would like me to 'help', are far more likely to rob me at gunpoint, than accept any kind of help from me. No. The black community needs to take some responsibility for their current condition, and start taking steps to change it. Unfortunately, their way of life has become institutionalized, and no one is really interested in change. It seems to be much more popular to go out, protest, burn, loot, pillage THEIR OWN NEIGHBORHOOD, when some criminal is killed by cops, than it is to actually attempt to make the situation better. The 'demands' of the BLM group make that eminently clear.

I think that's a matter of perspective. Personally, I don't want my granddaughter asking my why that 'lady' over there has somethin' swingin' between her legs. Nor do I want some perv/pedo using it as a cover, so he can go into the girls bathroom and get his rocks off. In all reality, in many ways, I agree with the law, use the bathroom for the physical sexual characteristics that you have. If you have the twig and berries, use the mens/boys room. Why is that so hard for people to get?

Is it harassing a tiny group? Or, is it protecting a much larger group?

Blame is pointless. The situation is as it is. Doesn't really matter anymore how we got here. I am real curious who is 'benefiting' from the current state of affairs......

HHhhhmmm.... So, Universities will be forced to allow folks to use the bathroom of their Gender Identity, but, government buildings will not? How does that make any sense? I still see this as the rights of a TINY minority, trumping the rights of the vast majority. I have a real problem with that. As I see it, there is no 'fix' for this. Someones rights are going to be abridged. I would REALLY like to know what reasoning anyone can apply to this situation...... Why is it, that trans folks 'rights' seem to be more important than EVERYONE else?

There is no external force that is going to solve anything for those that are unwilling to help themselves, or change what is wrong within their own communities. We have demonstrated this over and over again, but still, our politicians seem to think it is a good idea........ Change MUST start from within the communities themselves, else, any effort applied by an outside force is just a waste of time/effort/money.

Please explain to me how either amendment applies to which restroom you want to use.

But that's just it. No matter which way you slice, you will be violating someones rights. It makes sense to me to make that number as small as possible. Considering that the number of folks that want to use the 'other' bathroom, is a very tiny minority, doesn't it seem reasonable that they would be the ones that should have to give, instead of the rest of the population? Granted, to all of the 'rest of the population' sees this is much of an issue.... However, the significant majority does. Aren't we ostensibly a democratic nation? Majority rules, and all that? Or, should the majority give in to the tiny minority, and lets just toss all that democracy nonsense out the window? Basically, you simply CAN'T let everyone have what they want here. Something is going to have to give, will it be the majority? Or the minority?

Your reasoning applies to .1% of the population. Catering to them infringes on the rights of the other 99.9%. So, whose rights are more important? A tiny fraction of the population? Or, the vast majority of the population? And I question your 1 in a 1000 as well. What I am seeing is .03 to .05% of births..... (3 to 5 of 10,000......) Which skews the numbers even more dramatically.

This is idiotic. Protests are meant to show a sign of solidarity against an institutionalized wrong. Black on black crime is not institutionalized. Black on black crime is symptomatic of the poverty and injustice which black people have faced for 300 years in the United States. You don't stop black on black crime my protesting other black people, you stop it by enriching your community and improving those people's lives who resort to violence. White police officer's lives do not need to be improved. You stop white on black crime by protesting against those committing it, namely, the government ei white people ei police officers. Hey You are you being a typical privileged white person with that comment. LOLOLOL. Right. BLM gets all up in arms when a black person is killed by a cop. Doesn't matter what color the cop is. Doesn't matter that the person killed has a criminal record longer than your arm, or that the black person posed a real threat to the officer pulling the trigger. The 'victim' is always portrayed as some misunderstood angel that was victimized by 'the man'. What an utter load of bull feces. I am REAL curious how it is 'wrong' for a cop to defend himself, when he feels his life is threatened. And the whole thing about 'poverty and injustice' for the last 300 years is just another excuse for the poor behavior exhibited by the black community. 74% of children born out of wedlock. Multiple kids by different fathers. Etc. Etc. etc. The black community is its own worst enemy. Unless/Until the black community addresses their "cultural" problems, nothing is going to change. II doubt very seriously if BLM exists past the presidential election, no matter who gets in. I don't think it is social. I think it is political. I don't know..... there is an opportunity there for some folks to make money.... so, while it may be a purely political thing to begin with, I suspect it may evolve into something more...... Have you forgotten that there is more money into and out from politics than any other entity other than religion. Politics is synonymous with money. Playing the lotto and playing politics have a lot in common, LOLOL. Ain't that the truth. :D

This is idiotic. Protests are meant to show a sign of solidarity against an institutionalized wrong. Black on black crime is not institutionalized. Black on black crime is symptomatic of the poverty and injustice which black people have faced for 300 years in the United States. You don't stop black on black crime my protesting other black people, you stop it by enriching your community and improving those people's lives who resort to violence. White police officer's lives do not need to be improved. You stop white on black crime by protesting against those committing it, namely, the government ei white people ei police officers. Hey You are you being a typical privileged white person with that comment. LOLOLOL. Right. BLM gets all up in arms when a black person is killed by a cop. Doesn't matter what color the cop is. Doesn't matter that the person killed has a criminal record longer than your arm, or that the black person posed a real threat to the officer pulling the trigger. The 'victim' is always portrayed as some misunderstood angel that was victimized by 'the man'. What an utter load of bull feces. I am REAL curious how it is 'wrong' for a cop to defend himself, when he feels his life is threatened. And the whole thing about 'poverty and injustice' for the last 300 years is just another excuse for the poor behavior exhibited by the black community. 74% of children born out of wedlock. Multiple kids by different fathers. Etc. Etc. etc. The black community is its own worst enemy. Unless/Until the black community addresses their "cultural" problems, nothing is going to change. II doubt very seriously if BLM exists past the presidential election, no matter who gets in. I don't think it is social. I think it is political. I don't know..... there is an opportunity there for some folks to make money.... so, while it may be a purely political thing to begin with, I suspect it may evolve into something more......

This is idiotic. Protests are meant to show a sign of solidarity against an institutionalized wrong. Black on black crime is not institutionalized. Black on black crime is symptomatic of the poverty and injustice which black people have faced for 300 years in the United States. You don't stop black on black crime my protesting other black people, you stop it by enriching your community and improving those people's lives who resort to violence. White police officer's lives do not need to be improved. You stop white on black crime by protesting against those committing it, namely, the government ei white people ei police officers. Hey You are you being a typical privileged white person with that comment. LOLOLOL. Right. BLM gets all up in arms when a black person is killed by a cop. Doesn't matter what color the cop is. Doesn't matter that the person killed has a criminal record longer than your arm, or that the black person posed a real threat to the officer pulling the trigger. The 'victim' is always portrayed as some misunderstood angel that was victimized by 'the man'. What an utter load of bull feces. I am REAL curious how it is 'wrong' for a cop to defend himself, when he feels his life is threatened. And the whole thing about 'poverty and injustice' for the last 300 years is just another excuse for the poor behavior exhibited by the black community. 74% of children born out of wedlock. Multiple kids by different fathers. Etc. Etc. etc. The black community is its own worst enemy. Unless/Until the black community addresses their "cultural" problems, nothing is going to change.

The thing is, your perception of yourself isn't going to change anyone elses perception of you. If you go to the ladies john, and whip out your schlong, the ladies are going to take issue with that. (the ones with the correct equipment.) Go into the mens room, and no one will even bat an eye. Sure, brain scans are going to come up differently for people that have different views of themselves. I would even expect that you would get different results if you re-scanned the same folks periodically over time. (years.) That doesn't really prove anything. I would be much more interested in a comparison of blood chemistry, and the levels of selected hormones..... :) Your sex is a physical trait. it's not something you can simply decide to change, and expect society at large to accept it. Your brain activity has absolutely nothing to do with what is between your legs, as that can't change it either.