TheCalliton Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 wait?is dezdimona slof? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sangel2525 Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 wait?is dezdimona slof? No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCalliton Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 ohthen who is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buddah Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Alienslof, one of our moderators is "Slof". No, Dezi is a totally different person......Slof is unique in her own way and much more mature (age). Slof is from the UK and Dezi if memory serves is from the east coast Chesapeake Bay area, Dezi do correct me if I am wrong on that. Buddah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dezdimona Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Alienslof, one of our moderators is "Slof". No, Dezi is a totally different person......Slof is unique in her own way and much more mature (age). Slof is from the UK and Dezi if memory serves is from the east coast Chesapeake Bay area, Dezi do correct me if I am wrong on that. Buddahactually I live by lake Michigan on the Ill/wisconsin border. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buddah Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Then we are practically neighbors, 15 miles west of Wi, just north of the twin cities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roquefort Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I have to say that I personally wouldn't have expected the phrase `a bit "girly"' to be seen as offensive (or implying gayness), so I feel for ganoesparan06. However, somebody was offended and it would be pointless and impertinent to say they shouldn't have been. It's a matter of how individuals perceive how others express themselves informally, which can be hard to gauge if your only contact with other people is through online forums. I suppose all anyone can do is apologise after the fact if somebody does get upset (as ganoesparan06 gamely did). Nobody surely wants threads to look like lawyers' drafts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PureSnipe Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I have to say that I personally wouldn't have expected the phrase `a bit "girly"' to be seen as offensive (or implying gayness), so I feel for ganoesparan06. However, somebody was offended and it would be pointless and impertinent to say they shouldn't have been. It's a matter of how individuals perceive how others express themselves informally, which can be hard to gauge if your only contact with other people is through online forums. I suppose all anyone can do is apologize after the fact if somebody does get upset (as ganoesparan06 gamely did). Nobody surely wants threads to look like lawyers' drafts. Nor would she probably have if circumstances aren't as they are. I've had things irritate/offend me before that normally wouldn't, and if you haven't, I'd like to know what you're doing to keep yourself on the same emotional level at all times and in every situation life throws at you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roquefort Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Nor would she probably have if circumstances aren't as they are. I've had things irritate/offend me before that normally wouldn't, and if you haven't, I'd like to know what you're doing to keep yourself on the same emotional level at all times and in every situation life throws at you. I entirely agree, and I am aware of Slof's health issues. If you're feeling down and vulnerable it doesn't take much. I've had episodes of clinical depression in the past so I do know what you mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dezdimona Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Then we are practically neighbors, 15 miles west of Wi, just north of the twin cities.how cool is that...howdy neighbor ;D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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